Marriage Counselor & Relationship Coach

Restore, Reconnect & Rebuild Your Marriage

Whether you are preparing for marriage, fighting to save one, or healing from heartbreak — I will walk alongside you with proven tools, honest conversations, and genuine care.

Noruwa Edokpolo - Relationship Coach
200+
Couples Coached
25+
Years Experience

Whatever Season You Are In, You Do Not Have to Navigate It Alone

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Pre-Marital Couples

Engaged and preparing for marriage? I will help you build the foundation for a relationship that lasts — with the tools to communicate, resolve conflict, and start strong.

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Married Couples in Crisis

Dealing with communication breakdown, emotional distance, trust issues, or infidelity? There is a way back. I will help you find it together.

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Individuals Healing & Growing

Breaking free from toxic patterns, healing after heartbreak, or preparing for healthy love? I will help you build the self-awareness and confidence to do relationships differently.

Noruwa Edokpolo

I Am Noruwa Edokpolo

I am a seasoned marriage counsellor, pastor, marriage mentor, and author of Naked: The Mystery of Openness in Marriage. With over 25 years of experience walking couples through real issues and real transformation, I help partners restore love, trust, and unity where it matters most — at home.

Every marriage goes through seasons — some full of joy, others marked by distance, tension, or unmet expectations. Whether you are struggling to communicate, healing from conflict, or simply want to strengthen your bond, my coaching is designed to help you rebuild connection and rediscover the beauty of your covenant.

My approach is grounded in biblical truth, guided by the wisdom of God’s design for marriage, and powered by practical, actionable tools that bring measurable healing and change.

Marriage does not have to break — it can be rebuilt.

200+
Couples Coached
25+
Years Experience
100+
Workshops Delivered

A Coaching Program Designed for Your Season

Each program is built for a specific type of client. Find the one that speaks to where you are right now.

💍 For Pre-Marital Couples
Foundation Builder

The Starting Strong Program

A guided pre-marital coaching program designed to help engaged couples build an unshakable foundation before they say “I do.”

Ideal for you if: You are engaged or planning to marry and want to prepare properly — not just plan a wedding, but build a marriage.
  • 6 weekly 60-minute couple sessions via Zoom
  • Compatibility & communication style assessment
  • Guided conversations on money, family, faith, intimacy & expectations
  • Conflict resolution tools & scripts
  • Pre-marital workbook with weekly exercises
  • Post-wedding 30-day check-in call
₦300,000 / couple + ₦150,000 for SYMBIS Assessment
Enroll in Starting Strong →
🌱 For Individuals
Personal Transformation

The New Chapter Program

A 1-on-1 coaching program for individuals healing from toxic relationships, processing heartbreak, or preparing to build healthier love in the future.

Ideal for you if: You keep choosing the wrong partners, you are healing from divorce or betrayal, or you want to break generational patterns before your next relationship.
  • 6 sessions (60 min each) over a maximum of 3 months
  • Personal relationship pattern assessment
  • Attachment style analysis & healing plan
  • Boundary-setting & self-worth exercises
  • WhatsApp support between sessions
  • Guided journaling prompts & reflection toolkit
₦300,000 / individual
Start Your New Chapter →

The RESTORE Covenant Framework

A transformative model designed to heal broken patterns and reignite connection through faith, honesty, and practical tools.

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Reveal

Identify the deeper issues beneath surface conflicts and frustrations

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Establish

Define covenant goals and clear rules of engagement for communication

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Strengthen

Rebuild emotional safety, empathy, and mutual understanding

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Own

Help each partner take personal responsibility for growth and change

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Review & Evolve

Celebrate progress, renew your rhythm, and sustain long-term intimacy

The RESTORE framework is not just about solving problems — it is about renewing covenant love, rebuilding emotional trust, and creating a marriage that reflects grace and growth.

Begin Your RESTORE Journey →

Your Journey Starts With One Conversation

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Book a Free Call

Schedule a free 15-minute discovery call. Tell me your situation and I will listen without judgment.

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Get Matched

I will recommend the right program — pre-marital, marriage restoration, or individual healing.

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Start Coaching

We begin your sessions — practical tools, honest conversations, and real progress every week.

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Transform

Experience the shift — deeper connection, healthier patterns, and a relationship you feel proud of.

Stories of Real Transformation

Marriage Coaching
★★★★★

Very practical. He is one man my husband really respects and listens to. During one of the sessions, he spoke about the importance of praying together as a couple. My husband is not a very spiritual person, but we did it — held our hands and prayed. God answered most of the things we prayed for. His sessions have been truly helpful for us.

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Female Client
Age 35, Lagos
Marriage Coaching
★★★★★

Interactive, educative and practical. He gave us deep understanding of the issues we are facing as a couple without the blame games. He practically engages us on a true journey of reconciliation and reconnection. I was particularly inspired by his teaching on the fruits of the Spirit.

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Male Client
Age 54, Lekki, Lagos
Marriage Coaching
★★★★★

I signed up for the coaching because it was about the time I needed it most. It was exactly what I was looking for and it really helped my relationship. I would recommend it so that most marriages will not continue to suffer when there is help around.

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Female Client
Age 46, Arepo, Ogun State
Marriage Coaching
★★★★★

It is a very powerful experience. It made my marriage better than what it used to be. I would 100% recommend it because it helps foster relationships and contributes positively to home building. Pastor Noruwa is God-sent to this generation.

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Male Client
Age 48, Lagos
Marriage Coaching
★★★★★

Excellent and amazing. It builds our confidence and shapes our level of understanding. I would recommend it because it is all-encompassing and impactful. Pastor Noruwa is an excellent marriage counselor.

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Female Client
Age 40, Arepo
Marriage Coaching
★★★★★

It was very impactful. It strengthened my relationship with my husband. I wanted a better marriage and that is exactly what the coaching helped me build. I would recommend it to anyone.

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Female Client
Age 30, Lagos

Common Questions

What if my spouse will not participate?+
That is more common than you think, and it is okay. I work with individuals too through the New Chapter Program. Often, when one partner begins to change their approach, it shifts the entire dynamic. Many spouses who initially refused have later chosen to join.
Is everything confidential?+
Absolutely. Everything shared in our sessions stays between us. I take confidentiality very seriously — it is the foundation of the trust we build together.
We have tried counseling before and it did not work. How is this different?+
My coaching is anchored in the RESTORE Covenant Framework — a structured, faith-based process that combines biblical truth with practical, actionable tools. Every session ends with a clear action step and measurable progress. Many of my clients had negative counseling experiences before and found this approach to be the breakthrough they needed.
How are sessions conducted?+
Sessions are conducted via secure voice calls for maximum convenience. Each session lasts 60 minutes. You can join from anywhere. In-person sessions can also be arranged depending on location.
Do you offer payment plans?+
Yes! I offer flexible installment payment plans for all programs. We will discuss what works best for you during your discovery call.
How long is the commitment?+
The Relationship Reset Program involves 6 sessions over a maximum of 3 months. The Starting Strong and New Chapter programs follow the same structure \u2014 6 sessions over 3 months. The pace is flexible and designed to suit your schedule.
Can I do individual coaching even if I am married?+
Yes. The New Chapter Program is not only for single people. If you are married but your spouse will not join coaching, or if you need personal work on your own patterns, attachment style, or boundaries, individual coaching is a powerful option.
Is pre-marital coaching really necessary if we get along well?+
Getting along is wonderful — but marriage introduces challenges most couples do not anticipate. Pre-marital coaching is not about fixing problems; it is about equipping you with tools before problems arise. The couples who invest in preparation navigate the first years with the least friction.

Ready to Take the First Step?

Book your free 15-minute discovery call today. Whether you are preparing for marriage, fighting for one, or healing from heartbreak — there is a path forward, and it starts with one conversation.

Book Your Free Discovery Call →